A more considered way to connect.

JoinTheSwing is an 18+ dating and community service for couples and singles, built around individual identity verification, consent and privacy. New registration remains closed; existing members can continue using the website.

The principles behind the community.

Couples and singles. Shared relationships and individual choices. Respect for the person comes first.

Couples and single members, equal standing.

JoinTheSwing is built for verified couples and independent single members alike. A single woman or single man holds her or his own account — own verification, own privacy settings, own decisions about every introduction — not a couple-shaped profile bent to fit one person.

Verification comes before anything else.

Each person completes government-ID verification and a face check through our identity provider before member discovery or contact. New registration will begin in the native apps after release approval.

Clear verification boundaries.

Your government ID and selfie go straight to Veriff, our verification provider, for an automated document and biometric face-match and liveness check. JoinTheSwing never receives or stores those images; it retains the verification decision, provider session reference, consent receipt, and non-biometric review metadata.

Introductions, on your terms.

Consent matters at each step. Accepting an introduction does not create an obligation to message, meet or share private media.

Private by design.

Private albums with access you grant and can revoke at any time, an approximate rather than exact location on your profile, and no public directory — member profiles are never visible to the open internet.

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Getting to know JoinTheSwing.

Our guides, club directory and Answers library are public and free to read. Existing members can sign in and continue using the website.

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New registration remains closed. New members and digital membership purchases will begin in the native iOS and Android apps after release approval. Join the free launch list for updates.

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Built in Florida.

JoinTheSwing is operated by Bare Getaways LLC, based in Florida. Questions about membership, verification or privacy are welcome.

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These are the third-party profiles we publish as official.