No plus-one
required.
Single women belong here. When JoinTheSwing opens, you’ll be able to meet couples, other singles and friends who get this part of your life.
A private swingers community, opening at launch, where you’ll choose who gets closer.
Get on the free listGet the one-time lifetime offer.
Florida first. Starting in Tampa Bay & St. Petersburg.
What do you want?
Single women are part of the lifestyle in their own right. Some people use “unicorn.” You choose the label, if you want one at all.
A one-time thing
An evening with a couple, without the expectation of anything more. That can be the whole plan.
An ongoing connection
Friends with benefits, a familiar couple, or something you want to keep exploring together.
Dating a couple
Get to know both people. Take your time finding out whether the chemistry works for all of you.
A new circle of friends
Meet people who understand the lifestyle. Going out together doesn’t mean you have to pair off.
Meeting other women
You might be here for other single women. You don’t have to be looking for a couple.
Just seeing what’s out there
Read, ask questions, and figure out what you want. Curiosity doesn’t commit you to anything.
Your own account. Your own choices. You’re never an add-on to someone else’s relationship.
A few things
worth knowing.
Practical guides for the part that comes before “shall we meet?”
Curious? Start here.
What to think about before your first introduction.
Meeting a couple for the first time.
The conversation, the chemistry, and a first meet you can leave comfortably.
Going out on your own.
What to check before the door, and how to make the evening yours.
All scenes are illustrative, not member photos or advertised events.
Into the couple?
Meet both people.
At launch, both partners must complete their own government-ID, face-match and liveness check through Veriff before a couple can use member discovery and contact. One person’s verification doesn’t cover the other.
That checks identity. It doesn’t tell you what they’ve agreed between themselves, or guarantee good intentions. Let both people speak for themselves, ask what each wants, and see how they respond to your boundaries.
How to vet a coupleHow the identity check worksAn introduction.
Not an obligation.
A request gives you a chance to decide whether you want a conversation. You don’t owe anyone access, an explanation, or a second chance.
See who’s asking.
At launch, an introduction will start with a request. Preview the profile before deciding whether to open a conversation.
Choose who gets through.
Accept the introductions you want. Decline or leave the others unanswered. Accepting a chat isn’t consenting to anything else.
Change your mind.
You’ll be able to stop the conversation, block a member, or report a concern. Your boundaries can change at any point.
This side of you.
On your terms.
Share a little, share more, or keep it to yourself. Privacy controls will help you choose what other members can see.
Read the privacy guidePrivate albums. Selective access.
You’ll decide who can view your private photos and be able to revoke access when you want. Revoking access can’t erase a copy someone has already made.
Your area, not your address.
Profiles will use an approximate location. Avoid sharing details that identify your home, workplace, or daily routine.
Member profiles stay out of public search.
There’s no public member directory. That isn’t a promise of anonymity: another verified member could still recognize you.
From the current Veriff check, your ID images don’t come to us.
Veriff processes the ID and selfie. JoinTheSwing keeps the verification result, the provider session reference and your consent record; from the current Veriff check the images never reach us. Read the full verification notice.
Verification confirms identity.
Consent is a conversation.
Both partners should speak in their own voice and be comfortable saying what they want. Watch how each person responds to a no, a question, or a change of plan. You can pause or leave even when everyone has been verified.
The full couple-vetting checklistBefore you say yes.
Decide what you want, ask your questions, and leave yourself room to change your mind.
- Work out what you’re curious about and what’s off the table.
- Verify your own identity when new registration opens in the apps.
- Read the profile and hear from both partners directly.
- Put your boundaries into words before you meet.
- Start with a low-pressure introduction and your own way home.
Find your
Florida.
Launching worldwide, starting in Tampa Bay and St. Petersburg. Explore our independent local guides while the community gets ready to open.
Tampa & St. Petersburg
A single woman's guide to the Tampa Bay lifestyle scene — which venues admit single women and under what rules, what attending alone is like, and safety.
Orlando & Kissimmee
A single woman's guide to the Orlando and Kissimmee lifestyle scene — Secrets Hideaway's published single-woman pricing and what attending alone is like.
Miami-Dade
A single woman's guide to the Miami-Dade lifestyle scene — what Miami Velvet publishes (and doesn't) about single-woman admission, and what to expect.
Fort Lauderdale & Broward
A single woman's guide to the Fort Lauderdale and Broward lifestyle scene — Trapeze's published single-woman pricing and hours, and how JoinTheSwing fits.
Palm Beach
A single woman's guide to the Palm Beach lifestyle scene — why there's no standalone club in the county, and the nearby Broward venues that serve it.
Venue entry policies can change. Check the venue’s official site before making plans. These guides aren’t a list of JoinTheSwing events.
Your next connection
starts with you.
Join the free list — people on the list get a one-time, amazing lifetime offer and an email when your area opens.
One-time lifetime offer for people on the list.Get on the free list500 founding lifetime memberships will be offered. Joining the list does not reserve a membership. Purchases open in the native apps after release approval. See membership details.New member registration hasn’t opened yet. Existing members can sign in on the website.
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More questions single women ask.
By The JoinTheSwing Editors · Updated September 8, 2026
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