57 venue profiles · organized by region
Lifestyle clubs, region by region.
Explore club and resort profiles with first-visit notes and official links. Choose a region, compare the formats, and confirm the latest details with the venue before you make plans.
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These regional guides compare at least three venue profiles. Each has its own local context and practical notes to help you find the right format.
South Florida
Trapeze · Miami Velvet · Rooftop Resort
Compare the venuesTampa Bay & West-Central Florida
Eyz Wide Shut · Caliente Resort · Paradise Lakes Resort · Kraken Ranch
Compare the venuesNorth Florida
Club Kink · Club Uninhibited · Minglers Social Club · Hot Spot Parties
Compare the venuesAtlanta
Trapeze Atlanta · Swinging Atlanta · Tokyo Valentino
Compare the venuesHouston
The Pendulum Club · Colette Houston · The Night Game
Compare the venuesDallas–Fort Worth
Colette Dallas · Club Eden DFW · Barehide Ranch
Compare the venuesNew York City
The Diamond Club NYC · Club Labyrinth · Caligula New York · Hacienda · CheckMate NYC
Compare the venuesPhiladelphia & Pennsylvania
The Korral · The Pleasure Garden Club · Saints & Sinners
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South Florida — Miami, Fort Lauderdale, and Broward
South Florida runs on nightlife energy: on-premise clubs, a clothing-optional party hotel, and a steady calendar of hotel takeovers. The listed venues sit in Miami, Hollywood, and Tamarac, so pick by format and location rather than by city name alone.
Compare this regionCentral Florida — Orlando, Kissimmee, and the Space Coast
Resort country. Central Florida is anchored by a full lifestyle resort near Orlando, with smaller clubs spread across the Space Coast and the wider region.
Tampa Bay & West-Central Florida
A mix of nightlife and clothing-optional resort communities. Tampa Bay has a long-running club in the city and two nudist resort properties just north of it.
Compare this regionNorth Florida — Jacksonville and Daytona
Smaller, more local, more social. North Florida venues are mostly members-only clubs where the night depends on the crowd — worth researching before you drive.
Compare this regionAtlanta, Georgia
Atlanta lists venues in three distinct formats — the Trapeze brand's Atlanta location, a members' party community with an event calendar, and a nearly-always-open on-premise club.
Compare this regionDenver, Colorado
Denver lists two formats — an on-premise club (Scarlet Ranch) and Mon Chalet in Aurora, a clothing-optional stay-over resort for the Front Range.
Las Vegas, Nevada
Las Vegas is a visitor city, and two long-running clubs carry its directory listing: the Green Door, running since 1998, and the Red Rooster, running since 1982.
Houston, Texas
Houston's size supports a real lifestyle club scene. The Pendulum Club and Colette Houston give the metro two established options, and The Night Game adds an inclusive members' club that welcomes the full alternative-lifestyles spectrum.
Compare this regionNew Orleans, Louisiana
New Orleans has one listed lifestyle club: the Colette brand's members-only location. Check the club's own calendar for event weekends and hours before planning a visit.
Dallas–Fort Worth, Texas
Dallas–Fort Worth lists three operating venues: the Colette Dallas location, Club Eden DFW's members' social lounge in Euless, and a clothing-optional ranch resort west of the metro.
Compare this regionPalm Springs, California
Palm Springs has a well-established adult resort culture — clothing-optional stays and lifestyle-adjacent weekends are a normal part of the local hospitality scene.
Nashville, Tennessee
Nashville's bachelorette-and-nightlife tourism economy sits alongside a quieter lifestyle community. The Redroom is the members-only venue listed for the city; its own site says event tickets are sold only to approved members.
Austin, Texas
Austin's progressive, open-minded culture makes it a natural home for lifestyle venues. The Colette Austin location serves the metro and the broader Central Texas corridor.
San Francisco Bay Area, California
San Francisco has a long history with adult alternative venues — the Bay Area's permissive culture and dense urban population support venues like Power Exchange that have operated for decades.
Phoenix, Arizona
Phoenix's spread-out metro supports a small, local lifestyle scene — a walk-in on-premise club and an events-driven social club serve the Valley, with more socializing happening through private networks and Scottsdale resort weekends.
Los Angeles, California
LA's size and nightlife support a real on-premise club scene. Club Joi bills itself as the city's biggest private swing-lifestyle club, and Vixen Club runs its own San Fernando Valley venue — beyond those, the metro leans toward private parties.
New York City
New York's scene runs on private rooms and membership communities rather than one club district — Manhattan's members-only rooms, Brooklyn's consent-forward Hacienda community, and Caligula's dense themed calendar in Queens give the metro a range of formats.
Compare this regionSeattle, Washington
Seattle's listed venue is Club Sapphire, in nearby Tukwila — a private on-premise club serving the Seattle–Bellevue–Tacoma area.
Baltimore & the DC area
The Baltimore–Washington corridor has a steady on-premise scene anchored by Tabu Social Club in the Catonsville area, which draws couples from across Maryland, DC, Virginia, and southern Pennsylvania.
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
Oklahoma City's lifestyle scene is small and local, with Club Eden serving as the metro's listed private members club for couples in open relationships.
Toronto, Ontario (Canada)
Toronto's listed venue is Oasis Aqualounge, a downtown clothing-optional social club built around a heated pool and spa.
Pennsylvania
Pennsylvania's scene runs from Philadelphia — where two on-premise clubs serve the metro — to The Korral, a private members' club in the south-central part of the state.
Compare this regionBoston & New England
New England's lifestyle scene runs north of Boston, where Club Sinz has operated as a private members club since 2004 and serves couples across the Massachusetts–New Hampshire line.
Portland, Oregon
Portland's permissive, sex-positive culture supports two long-established on-premise venues — a themed-night members' nightclub and a members-only social club.
Columbus, Ohio
Columbus lists two established membership clubs — a dressed-up themed-night venue and a BYOB house-party club — serving Ohio's capital.
Chicago, Illinois
Chicago's scene runs through private membership clubs rather than walk-in venues — the kink and lifestyle communities overlap in a city with a long sex-positive history.
Detroit, Michigan
Metro Detroit's lifestyle scene is small but real — a members-only speakeasy-style club in the city and a long-running lifestyle bar in the Dearborn area give the region two distinct formats.
Charlotte & Gastonia, North Carolina
The Charlotte metro's lifestyle scene runs through private clubs in the surrounding towns rather than center-city — Gastonia, just west of Charlotte, hosts the area's listed on-premise club.
San Antonio, Texas
San Antonio's scene leans on private events and the I-35 corridor to Austin, with the Colette brand listing the city among its locations — verify current status directly before planning around it.
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