Get to know Hacienda.
Hacienda is a Brooklyn-based membership club and community that has been running since 2009, built as much around education and community as around its signature play parties. The programming spans play parties, intimate socials, and workshops, with a residential component — villas members can stay in — and a social space the organization calls The House.
Its own site says "Guardians are trained volunteers who staff every play party to protect everyone's comfort and safety", and describes pre-party orientation talks covering consent, negotiation and play party etiquette. Hacienda calls itself "a consent opt-in space, where all touch is to be mutually desired and agreed upon, never presumed".
Membership and event details are managed through the official site, and events sell on tickets — check the current calendar and membership terms before planning a first visit.
Page content updated August 20, 2026; source fact-check status shown above.
Hacienda: your questions.
Do you need a membership for Hacienda?
Yes — membership and events are managed through the official site, and events sell on tickets. Check the current calendar and membership terms before planning a first visit.
What happens at a Hacienda play party?
Its own site says Guardians are trained volunteers who staff every play party, and that pre-party orientation talks cover consent, negotiation and play party etiquette. The club describes itself as "a consent opt-in space, where all touch is to be mutually desired and agreed upon, never presumed".
Is there a dress code at Hacienda?
There is no single documented dress code — events set their own tone, and the community's norms lean expressive over formal. Check the specific event page for guidance.
Where is Hacienda?
In Brooklyn. JoinTheSwing does not publish street addresses; the official site carries the current event details and arrival information.