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Hacienda
Brooklyn, NY · Brooklyn's membership-based sex club and community — play parties, socials, and workshops run with trained staff at every event, since 2009.
What it's known for
The honest read on Hacienda.
Hacienda is a Brooklyn-based membership club and community that has been running since 2009, built as much around education and community as around its signature play parties. The programming spans play parties, intimate socials, and workshops, with a residential component — villas members can stay in — and a social space the organization calls The House.
What distinguishes Hacienda in public descriptions is structure: trained staff the organization calls Guardians attend every play party, and newcomers are onboarded through orientation rather than dropped into the deep end. That consent-forward, community-first framing is the product — it draws a crowd that skews sex-positive and kink-adjacent rather than traditional swingers-club.
Membership and event details are managed through the official site, and events sell on tickets — check the current calendar and membership terms before planning a first visit.
Page content updated August 20, 2026; source fact-check status shown above.
First-timer notes
If this is your first visit.
One of the more structured first-time experiences in New York: orientation, trained staff at every party, and a social-first community mean you will not be improvising alone. Apply for membership ahead of time, pick a social or workshop before a full play party, and go at your own pace.
Dress code
What to wear.
No single documented dress code — events set their own tone, and the community's norms lean expressive over formal. Check the specific event page for guidance before you go.
Beyond the directory
Research this venue now. October 1 is the member-conversation target.
Public listings can change, so confirm the current schedule, admission rules, and location through Hacienda’s official channels before you travel. October 1, 2026 is the verified-member-feature target, subject to processor and compliance approval; the launch email list is free.
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