Get to know Caligula New York.
Caligula New York is a private, on-premise lifestyle social club in the Astoria section of Queens, describing itself as created by the lifestyle, for the lifestyle. It runs members-oriented events several nights a week, and its calendar is unusually dense — themed parties nearly every weekend night, from dress-theme concepts to recurring Sunday events.
Its own site says it runs "exclusive, members-only lifestyle events" and describes "a private, upscale social club created by the Lifestyle, for the Lifestyle", where "couples, single ladies, and select single gentlemen can connect".
As with all New York private clubs, the details change event to event — confirm the specific night's theme, entry requirements, and location details on the official site before you go.
Page content updated August 20, 2026; source fact-check status shown above.
Caligula New York: your questions.
What's the dress code at Caligula New York?
Its own FAQ says all guests must be "clean, neat, and well-groomed" in a "sexy yet relaxed atmosphere", welcomes "Lingerie and fetish wear", notes that "Collared shirts are preferred" for men, and lists what is not allowed — high-top sneakers, work boots, sweats, running suits, baseball caps, bandanas and doo-rags. Check the event listing before you go.
Is Caligula New York members-only?
Its own site says it runs "exclusive, members-only lifestyle events" for a scene where "couples, single ladies, and select single gentlemen can connect". Check the night's entry requirements on the official site.
What kind of events does Caligula New York run?
Its record here describes a themed calendar; check the club's own event page.
Where is Caligula New York?
In Astoria, Queens, New York. JoinTheSwing does not publish street addresses; the club's official site carries directions and arrival details.