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What is the difference between Hedonism II and Desire Resort?

Hedonism II in Jamaica welcomes singles and couples and has both a prude (clothed) side and a nude side. Desire Resort in Mexico is couples-only, clothing-optional throughout, and more intimate in scale. Both are well-established lifestyle-friendly resorts with different atmospheres.

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Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica is the most well-known lifestyle resort in the world. It is divided into a prude side (mainstream guests, swimwear required) and a nude side (clothing-optional, lifestyle-friendly). Singles are welcome, which differentiates it from strictly couples-only properties. The atmosphere is high-energy — nightly themed events, a large pool area, and a well-organised social programme.

Desire Resort and Spa (Puerto Morelos, Mexico) operates two properties and is strictly couples-only — no singles of any gender. The clothing-optional policy applies across the entire resort from the moment of check-in. The scale is smaller and more intimate, which many couples prefer for a first lifestyle resort experience.

Temptation Cancún Resort is clothing-optional in a specific section (the TopLess Pool area) and operates an adults-only policy. It is not strictly a lifestyle resort — mainstream and lifestyle guests both attend — but it has a well-established reputation as lifestyle-friendly and hosts organised group trips.

The practical choice between these properties depends on what kind of experience you are looking for. If this is your first resort experience, many couples prefer Desire for its intimate scale and couples-only policy. If you want high energy and a diverse crowd, Hedonism II is the classic choice.

For booking any of these resorts as part of a lifestyle group, Bare Getaways handles reservations and can advise on which organised group trips are scheduled at each property. Group trips are significantly more social than independent bookings because the guest list is assembled and reviewed by the organiser before arrival.

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