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Feeld is a modern, app-first platform popular for ethical non-monogamy, kink, and open-minded dating. JoinTheSwing is couple-anchored and designed around reviewed identity, consent-first contact, and a planned travel connection through Bare Getaways. JoinTheSwing does not host or organize events.
Get on the listUpdated October 25, 2026 · By the JoinTheSwing Editors
Why choose Join
Couples and confident singles who want reviewed identity, consent-first contact, and planned lifestyle travel — not just app chat.
When Feeld may suit you
Singles and solo-poly people who want a modern, inclusive app for open-minded dating and kink exploration.
What matters when you meet.
Compare the experience, the checks and the commitment. JoinTheSwing is preparing its regional launch; the list is open, new member registration is not.
Primary mode
- JoinTheSwing
- Reviewed discovery + planned travel
- Feeld
- App-based discovery/chat
Audience
- JoinTheSwing
- Couple-anchored
- Feeld
- Single / solo-poly skew
Verification
- JoinTheSwing
- Required at launch — Veriff ID, biometric face-match and liveness check. From the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing receives no images (retaining the result, Veriff session reference, consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata); members from our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in private storage until account deletion.
- Feeld
- Limited
Events
- JoinTheSwing
- Does not host or organize events
- Feeld
- Curated events via Experiences
Travel
- JoinTheSwing
- Bare Getaways (planned)
- Feeld
- None
JoinTheSwing's identity check runs through Veriff (document authenticity, biometric face-match and liveness). From the current Veriff check the images never reach JoinTheSwing: we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private storage, deleted when the account is deleted. Digital memberships are bought in the native iOS and Android apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing after release approval. Read the privacy and verification policy.
Where Feeld differs
- Verification is optional, not required of every member
- No first-party travel product on-platform
What Feeld offers
- Polished, modern mobile app
- Inclusive of many relationship styles and kinks
- Strong single and solo-poly audience
Your people. Your private life.
A swingers community planned for couples and singles, opening at launch. Every member will be verified before discovery or contact. You will choose who gets closer.
Get on the free list for the one-time lifetime offer and an email when your area opens.
Get on the list 500 founding memberships will be offered. Joining the list does not reserve or purchase one. Purchases open in the native iOS and Android apps (StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing) after release approval. Membership details · Privacy & verification.Before you choose.
Is Feeld good for couples in the lifestyle?
Feeld supports couples and broad non-monogamous discovery, and its FAQ says it curates community events through Experiences. JoinTheSwing is couple-anchored and designed around reviewed identity, and consent-first contact. JoinTheSwing does not host or organize events.