What does Exhibitionist mean?
An exhibitionist in the Lifestyle is someone who enjoys being watched during play — the consensual counterpart to the voyeur.
Exhibitionism in a Lifestyle setting means enjoying being seen by a consenting audience. The preference itself does not establish anyone else's permission to watch, approach, record, or participate.
Open spaces and venue rules vary. Participants should agree on the audience they want, check the room's policy, and use private space when one partner or attendee does not want to be observed.
Partners can have different comfort levels, and either person can change their mind. A direct check-in is more reliable than assuming that the room, clothing, or activity communicates consent.
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New member registration, when available, will be on the website and in the native apps; digital membership purchases take place in the native apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Existing members can continue using the website. At launch, member identity verification will run through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted. The free launch list does not create an account, start a subscription or charge a card.
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