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What happens if partners pause or unlink a linked couple profile?

When partners take a break on JoinTheSwing, tightening your visibility preset and revoking private-album access pauses discovery without losing your two-person Veriff check; if you part ways, closing or unlinking the couple profile removes shared photos while native App Store or Google Play billing stays in device settings.

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On JoinTheSwing, a couple representation models two real people rather than an unverified shared alias: both people on a couple profile each complete their own automated Veriff government-ID, biometric face-match, and liveness check before the profile is marked verified, with account controls governing profile visibility and media sharing.

If you and your partner are simply stepping back for a busy work season or relationship reset, you do not need to delete your account. Tightening your visibility preset and revoking active private-album grants pauses incoming social discovery while keeping your verified couple status intact for when you return together.

When partners decide to end a couple representation — whether stepping out of the lifestyle or parting ways — updating or closing the couple profile removes shared couple photos and joint messaging context so neither person continues presenting as a couple without ongoing mutual consent, with support and deletion paths available anytime.

Any active digital membership bought through the Apple App Store (StoreKit 2) on iOS or Google Play Billing on Android remains managed in the purchasing partner's native device subscription settings, and full account erasure remains available anytime via /legal/account-deletion. Compare /guides/verified-access-onboarding and /membership for account-structure details.

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Digital membership purchases take place in the iOS and Android apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Member identity verification runs through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted.

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