Skip to main content

How do linked couple profiles work on JoinTheSwing?

On JoinTheSwing, a couple representation links two adults rather than sharing one anonymous login. Each adult completes their own government-ID and biometric face-match and liveness check through Veriff, and a couple is marked verified only after both partners have passed, helping reduce single-person impersonation while keeping communication boundaries clear.

Illustrative scene: adults getting to know each other at a white-night social
Illustrative scene, not JoinTheSwing members or an advertised event.

On many older swingers directories, a couple profile is a single email login with one shared text box. That setup makes it hard for other couples or single women to tell whether both partners actually know the account exists or whether one person is messaging solo behind a shared photo.

JoinTheSwing models a couple around two real people. Each adult completes their own government-ID and biometric face-match and liveness check via Veriff, and a couple is marked verified only after both partners have passed. From the current Veriff check, JoinTheSwing never receives or stores raw ID or selfie images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt, and non-biometric review metadata, as explained at /legal/privacy.

Paired representation also works alongside discreet privacy presets, revocable private photo albums, and request-first Messages. Couples can introduce themselves with shared context — whether they prefer soft swap, full swap, same-room boundaries, or social meet-and-greets — while keeping sensitive photos gated until an introduction is accepted.

Two passed checks confirm that two distinct people stand behind a couple representation, but no technical check can verify ongoing relationship harmony or mutual enthusiasm on a given night. Always invite both partners into early conversation, confirm boundaries in each person's own words, and note that while new public registration remains closed, couples can join the free waitlist at /join.

Verified-only introductions, when JoinTheSwing opens.

Join the free list for registration updates. New registration is closed. The list is not an account or a subscription. Existing members can sign in on the website.

Digital membership purchases take place in the iOS and Android apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Member identity verification runs through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted.

Who's joining?

Required for the US, Canada and Australia; optional elsewhere.

More about you — optional

We do not sell your email. Service providers process it as described in our Privacy Policy. 18+ only.