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Do both partners need to create a profile on a lifestyle site?

Yes. At launch, each adult will have their own account, credentials and identity verification. Consensual relationship representation can be shared; a partner's check or action does not replace yours. New registration remains closed until the coordinated native-app release is approved. Identity review does not prove consent or future conduct.

Illustrative scene: adults getting to know each other at a white-night social
Illustrative scene, not JoinTheSwing members or an advertised event.

A couple profile can be misrepresented when only one person participates in setup. Independent accounts and identity checks make each person's participation explicit, but they cannot establish the relationship, prove continuing agreement or eliminate deceptive conduct.

Each adult completes their own Veriff document, face-match and liveness flow under the provider's privacy and retention terms. JoinTheSwing retains the decision, the consent receipt, the provider reference and non-biometric review metadata; from the current Veriff check the source ID and face images never reach JoinTheSwing. One person's verification cannot stand in for their partner's.

At launch, your individual account will be separate from any shared relationship representation. Each person uses their own account and credentials. Joining or changing a shared representation requires the affected people's consent; being represented together does not make one person's private choices or messages available to the other.

Withdrawal, blocking and reporting are personal choices. A partner's verification or previous agreement does not authorize a later message, RSVP or profile change. Review the permissions and relationship choices shown in the product, and use support if something does not reflect your decision.

New registration remains closed while the required release work and approvals are incomplete. Registration will open on the website and in the native apps after approval, and digital membership purchases will begin in the native apps. Existing members retain the complete web experience, whether they are single or part of a relationship.

Verified-only introductions, when JoinTheSwing opens.

Join the free list for registration updates. New registration is closed. The list is not an account or a subscription. Existing members can sign in on the website.

Digital membership purchases take place in the iOS and Android apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Member identity verification runs through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted.

Who's joining?

Required for the US, Canada and Australia; optional elsewhere.

More about you — optional

We do not sell your email. Service providers process it as described in our Privacy Policy. 18+ only.