01ResortHollywood
A clothing-optional adult party hotel near the beach — nudists, lifestyle couples, and party crowds all in one place.
First-timer notes: Better as a second or third step than a first one — the lack of structure that makes it fun also means you need to be comfortable holding your own boundaries in a mixed crowd. If you go, a hosted takeover weekend gives you more context than a random night.
Dress code: Publicly advertised as clothing-optional throughout the property. There is no dress code to meet so much as a comfort level to decide on — wear what you want, including everything.
02ClubFort Lauderdale (Tamarac)
One of the best-known traditional swingers clubs in the country — structured club nights, enforced standards, couples-first.
First-timer notes: A strong first-club choice if you want structure. Read the posted rules and the specific night's dress code on the official site before you leave home. Arrive as a couple, start on the social floor, and treat play areas as optional — plenty of couples spend a first visit talking, dancing, and leaving without using them. Agree on a simple couple check-in signal, keep phones out of private areas, and take a rideshare plan seriously so neither of you is stranded negotiating logistics at 2 a.m. Single-male entry is restricted on most nights; do not build a first visit around an exception you have not confirmed in writing on the club's current materials.
Dress code: Trapeze is publicly known for enforcing dress standards — dress to impress on club nights, not downtown-casual. Theme nights may require specific colors, looks, or levels of dress; those requirements are posted on the official Fort Lauderdale calendar and are applied at the door. When in doubt, err sharper and more intentional than you would for a vanilla bar, and re-read the night's event page the day of.
03ClubMiami
Florida's largest private lifestyle nightclub — Miami nightlife energy first, playrooms second.
First-timer notes: One of the lowest-pressure ways to see the lifestyle up close in Miami: you can treat Velvet purely as a dressed-up nightclub, dance, talk, and leave without using play areas. Go as a couple unless you have confirmed another door category in writing. Read the night's official event rules, arrive looking like you meant to be in a Miami club, and set a shared expectation that social chemistry — not a guaranteed play outcome — is the success metric. Keep phones out of private areas, agree on a check-in signal, and use rideshare rather than debating parking at closing time. If your primary goal is maximum play volume with traditional swingers-club pacing, compare Trapeze in Broward on a different night instead of forcing Velvet to be something public reviews say it is not.
Dress code: Expect Miami nightclub-level dress — public descriptions repeatedly frame Velvet as a dress-up club. Think intentional clubwear over casual downtown attire; theme nights can add color, fetish-chic, or formal-leaning requirements posted on the official calendar. When a theme is published, treat it as door policy, not a suggestion. If you are unsure, overdress slightly and re-check the event page the day of your visit.
04ClubPompano Beach
Pompano Beach on-premise club — formerly Velvet FTL, Defy, and Club Hedo — relaunched as Krave in late 2024.
First-timer notes: A smaller, more local room than Trapeze or Velvet — which can be easier for nervous first-timers, since regulars tend to notice and welcome new faces. Read the club's posted rules first; they are explicit about consent and conduct.
Dress code: No publicly documented dress code. Most lifestyle venues expect smart, dressed-up attire on club nights — check the venue's website or event listing for theme nights and specifics before you go.
