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Six platforms, four questions that matter
Verification, both-partner checks, privacy, and price.
Where a platform's own site or App Store listing didn't confirm a fact, this table says so honestly instead of guessing. See the sources section below for exactly what was checked and when.
| Platform | ID / verification | Both-partner checks | Privacy controls | Pricing for women | Install model |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| JoinTheSwing | Required at launch: automated ID and face check through Veriff | Required — each partner on a couple profile individually verifies before the profile activates | Consent-gated introductions and approximate location for every member; revocable private albums with Premium viewing | No gender-based pricing — every individual pays the same Individual-plan rate; see membership page | Installable web app (PWA) today; native iOS and Android apps in testing, not yet on the public stores; October 1, 2026 is the registration target subject to processor and compliance approval |
| Feeld | Optional photo verification; government ID only for UK/Australia age checks | Not applicable — Paired couple profiles exist, but neither partner's identity is individually verified | Incognito, private photos, and disappearing photos exist, but Incognito is a paid Majestic feature | No gender-based pricing published; Majestic rate shows in-app, varies by region | Native mobile app only — the website is not a functional substitute |
| SDC | Email registration standard; ID + selfie verification not required for every member | Not required — a couple profile can be created without either partner completing individual ID review | Profile-level visibility settings; no specific single-women safety feature confirmed on its official pages | Gender-based pricing confirmed on its own App Store listing — a 1-month plan runs less for women/couples than for men (e.g. $26.99 vs. $32.99 at last check) | Web and native mobile apps |
| 3Fun | Photo verification is opt-in (a selfie), not required | A linked couple account verifies with one joint selfie of both partners together, not two separate individual ID checks | Incognito mode and distance-hiding are paid VIP features; free tier can browse, like, and chat after a match | No gender-based pricing published | Native mobile apps (iOS and Android) |
| Pineapple | Store listing states manual profile verification for every user via photo ID | Supports joint and individual (linked) couple accounts; a documented per-partner ID requirement was not confirmed on its official pages | App-first profiles; no dedicated single-women safety feature confirmed on its official pages | No gender-based pricing published; free to download, with a separate paid tier | Native mobile app first |
| AdultFriendFinder | Could not verify current terms — its own pricing and verification pages could not be independently confirmed this session | Not confirmed — an optional third-party ID verification product has been reported but not confirmed on an AFF-owned page | Not confirmed this session — confirm current controls directly on its site | Not confirmed this session — confirm current pricing directly on its site before registering | Primarily web; third-party or companion apps may exist |
Platform features and pricing change. Confirm current details with each provider before registering.
Method
Every competitor claim above, sourced.
Each fact was checked against the platform's own site, help center, or App Store listing, verified August 16, 2026. AdultFriendFinder's official pages could not be independently confirmed this session, which is why its row above says so rather than guessing.
SDC's App Store listing shows a 1-month subscription at $32.99 for men and $26.99 for women/couples.
SDC's app offers a 3-day trial membership with full access to all app features; subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before renewal.
Feeld's core features are free; Majestic membership is a paid add-on with no fixed global price.
Source: Feeld FAQ
Feeld's Incognito mode is a Majestic (paid) feature.
3Fun is free to download with in-app purchases; VIP is listed starting at $29.99/month on its App Store listing.
3Fun's linked couple accounts verify with both partners appearing together in one verification selfie.
Source: 3Fun FAQ
3Fun's free tier allows browsing, liking, and chatting after a match; VIP unlocks Pokes, Incognito, and distance-hiding.
Source: 3Fun FAQ
Pineapple's App Store listing describes manual profile verification for every user and supports joint and individual (linked) couple accounts.
Pineapple's own site offers free signup with a separate paid VIP tier; exact VIP pricing is not published on the site.
Common questions
Apps for single women, answered plainly.
What is the best app for a single woman in the swinger lifestyle?
There is no single best answer — it depends on what you weigh most. If mandatory identity verification for both partners in a couple matters most, JoinTheSwing verifies each partner individually before contact opens. If you want the largest directory or the deepest event calendar, legacy platforms like SDC have more scale. If you want a free, modern swipe app, Feeld and 3Fun are faster to start with, though their verification is optional rather than required.
Do any lifestyle apps charge single women less than men?
SDC does — its own App Store listing shows a lower subscription rate for women and couples than for men (e.g. $26.99 vs. $32.99 for a 1-month plan at last check; confirm current rates in-app). Feeld, 3Fun, and Pineapple do not publish gender-based pricing. JoinTheSwing also does not use gender-based pricing — every individual pays the same rate regardless of gender or identity.
Which app verifies both partners in a couple, not just one?
JoinTheSwing requires each partner on a couple profile to individually complete their own ID + selfie check before the profile activates. 3Fun verifies a linked couple account with one joint selfie of both partners together rather than two separate checks. SDC, Feeld, and Pineapple do not document a mandatory per-partner identity requirement on their official pages.
Are safety features like incognito mode usually free?
Not always. On Feeld, Incognito mode (hiding your profile from anyone who hasn't liked you first) is a paid Majestic feature. On 3Fun, Incognito and distance-hiding are paid VIP features. On JoinTheSwing, consent-gated introductions and approximate location are included for every member; private-album viewing is part of Premium — an important honesty note when comparing "free" tiers.
Is it safe for a single woman to try one of these apps without ID verification?
Optional verification means some profiles you encounter will not have completed any identity check. That doesn't make a platform unsafe by default, but it does shift more of the vetting work onto you. See the how-to-vet-a-couple guide for a practical checklist, and consider a platform where verification is required for every member before you're reachable.
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