What does Bull mean?
A bull is a single man in the Lifestyle who plays with couples — most commonly in hotwife or stag/vixen dynamics. Being a reputable bull requires discretion, confidence, and genuine respect for the couple's boundaries.
The term 'bull' is used for a confident single man welcomed by some couples — often in hotwife or stag/vixen arrangements — as a partner for the woman. The label does not itself establish experience, discretion, or compatibility.
In practice, a couple's own conversation and venue checks still matter more than a label.
Reputation in a local or online Lifestyle community is built over time through conduct, communication, references, and independent screening. Venue admission rules vary, and a vouch or verification badge is context rather than proof of behavior.
JoinTheSwing plans a vouch feature that can provide member-authored context for introductions. A vouch is subjective, may not prove an in-person meeting, and should not replace a couple's own conversation, safety plan, or venue checks.
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New member registration, when available, will be on the website and in the native apps; digital membership purchases take place in the native apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Existing members can continue using the website. At launch, member identity verification will run through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted. The free launch list does not create an account, start a subscription or charge a card.
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