Getting Started
What is the fastest way to get started on JoinTheSwing?
Create a free account at /join, complete ID + selfie verification for both partners (a one-time $4.99 check), build out your profile with photos and honest preferences, join one or two relevant Circles for your location, and RSVP to a meet-and-greet style event as your first in-person experience.
The fastest path from newcomer to active community participant takes about a week of deliberate effort. It is faster than most people expect because the verification process is automated and the social surfaces are designed to surface relevant connections quickly once your profile is complete.
Step one: create your account at /join and complete ID + selfie verification for both partners. Joining is free; verification is a one-time $4.99 check and takes about 15 minutes per person. You need a government ID and a phone with a working front camera. After verification, your profile is live in the verified community.
Step two: complete your profile fully before you start reaching out to anyone. Add photos (at least a clear face photo visible to verified members you approve, and a photo of both of you together), write a genuine bio, and set your preferences accurately. A complete profile gets responses; an empty one almost never does.
Step three: join one or two Circles relevant to your city and your interests. This puts you in the social context of other members before you make any individual connections, and often leads to organic conversations without requiring cold outreach.
Step four: RSVP to a social event. A meet-and-greet or clothed social night is the lowest-stakes first event — it is purely conversational, you can leave whenever you want, and it gives you a chance to meet verified community members face to face. That social context makes every subsequent platform interaction more meaningful.
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