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What does Privacy Preset mean?

Reviewed November 10, 2026

A privacy preset is a bundled profile-visibility setting that groups search exclusion, photo gating, and contact rules into clear modes so adults can control who sees identifying details.

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Complex privacy menus with dozens of separate switches often cause accidental exposure when a user misses one setting. A privacy preset groups those choices into plain modes — such as keeping introductory profile cards discreet while restricting fuller details to permitted viewers — paired with a preview of what other viewer classes can see.

JoinTheSwing keeps member profiles out of public search engine indexes and combines discreet presets with private album gates and request-first Messages.

No technical preset eliminates interpersonal risk: once you unlock a photo or share personal details with another person, software cannot stop a secondary camera from photographing a screen. Pair platform presets with unique non-social photos and gradual trust.

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New member registration, when available, will be on the website and in the native apps; digital membership purchases take place in the native apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Existing members can continue using the website. At launch, member identity verification will run through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted. The free launch list does not create an account, start a subscription or charge a card.

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