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What does Discretion mean?

Reviewed August 20, 2026

Discretion in the Lifestyle means protecting the privacy of everyone encountered — never sharing who you've met, what you've seen, or where events were held without explicit permission from all parties involved.

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Discretion means protecting the privacy of other participants: do not share names, photos, locations, or attendance without permission. It is a community norm and a personal responsibility, not something a platform can guarantee.

JoinTheSwing keeps member profiles out of public search indexing and supports private albums and request-based Messages. Device notifications, screenshots, recipients, and home-screen installation remain outside perfect platform control. PWA naming and appearance also depend on the browser and operating system.

Use a device and notification setup appropriate to your circumstances, review every sharing control, and assume that anything sent to another person could be retained. Report misuse through the published support and safety paths.

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