What does Discretion mean?
Discretion in the Lifestyle means protecting the privacy of everyone encountered — never sharing who you've met, what you've seen, or where events were held without explicit permission from all parties involved.
Discretion means protecting the privacy of other participants: do not share names, photos, locations, or attendance without permission. It is a community norm and a personal responsibility, not something a platform can guarantee.
JoinTheSwing is designed to keep member profiles out of public search indexing, with private albums and request-based Messages. Device notifications, screenshots, recipients, and home-screen installation remain outside perfect platform control. PWA naming and appearance also depend on the browser and operating system.
Use a device and notification setup appropriate to your circumstances, review every sharing control, and assume that anything sent to another person could be retained. Report misuse through the published support and safety paths.
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New member registration, when available, will be on the website and in the native apps; digital membership purchases take place in the native apps via StoreKit 2 and Google Play Billing. Existing members can continue using the website. At launch, member identity verification will run through an automated government ID, biometric face-match and liveness check by Veriff: from the current Veriff check JoinTheSwing never receives or stores the images — we retain the verification result, Veriff's session reference, a consent receipt and non-biometric review metadata. Members who verified through our earlier, retired in-house pass may still have ID, selfie or couple photos in our private verification-document storage, deleted when the account is deleted. The free launch list does not create an account, start a subscription or charge a card.
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