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How does JoinTheSwing handle blocking and reporting?

A member block is enforced across supported discovery and communication surfaces in both directions. A report records the reporter, subject, reason, detail, and any optional target or context supplied, then returns a reference for moderation. It does not automatically attach every conversation, timeline, or verification record, and identity review is not a safety guarantee.

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JoinTheSwing checks member blocks across supported discovery, travel, availability, and messaging paths so either direction of a block prevents those surfaces from reconnecting the pair. A block is a product control, not a promise that every off-platform contact or future surface can be prevented.

A submitted report persists the reporter, subject, reason, detail, optional urgency, and any supported target or context the member supplies, then returns a moderation reference. Blocks and reports are separate records; the current implementation does not promise that every block generates a report or that aggregate patterns are automatically surfaced to support.

A targeted Letter message or supported thread report may preserve bounded context for review. Ordinary reports do not automatically include a full conversation, timeline, or verification file, so describe the concern clearly and identify the relevant target when the form supports it.

Provider-backed identity review gives the support team another bounded signal when it investigates abuse, but it does not guarantee that a removed person cannot evade controls or create another account. Members should still use blocking, reporting, independent safety plans, and emergency services when appropriate rather than treating verification as permanent exclusion.

At any live event, report a boundary violation through the host's stated safety process and contact emergency services when appropriate. JoinTheSwing has built moderation tools for a future first-party event workflow, but this does not claim a current hosted event or replace an actual venue's procedures.

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