What does Mutual block mean?
A mutual block is a two-way platform control that removes both accounts from each other's discovery, profile views, and messaging paths without notifying the blocked member.
Unlike public social networks where blocking someone can still leave traces or awkward read-state clues, a mutual block on a discreet lifestyle platform severs visibility in both directions across supported discovery, availability, travel, and messaging surfaces.
Couples use blocks proactively whenever they recognize a coworker, client, neighbor, or former acquaintance, as well as reactively when an interaction feels mismatched. Blocking is a quiet boundary tool and is separate from submitting a moderation report, which records specific context for support review.
Keep realistic safety boundaries in mind: a software block governs supported on-platform surfaces rather than off-platform life, so pair it with discreet visibility presets and gated private albums. Review /guides/safety-privacy and /answers/mutual-block-controls-and-discreet-visibility-presets-on-jointheswing.
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